Not everybody has to love me or even like me.
I don't necessarily like everybody I know, so why should everybody else like me?
I enjoy being liked and being loved, but if somebody doesn't like me, I will still be okay and still feel like I am an okay person.
I cannot make somebody like me, any more than someone can get me to like them.
I don't need approval all the time.
If someone does not approve of me, I will still be okay.


People who do things I don't like are not necessarily bad people.
They should not necessarily be punished just because I don't like what they do or did.
There is no reason why other people should be the way I want them to be, and there is no reason why I should be the way somebody else wants me to be.
People will be whatever they want to be, and I will be whatever I want to be.
I cannot control other people or change them.
They are who they are; we all deserve basic respect.


I am responsible for how I feel and what I do.
Nobody can make me feel anything.
If I have a rotten day, I am the one who allowed it to be that way.
If I have a great day, I am the one who deserves credit for being positive.
It is not the responsibility of other people to change so that I can feel better.
I am the one who is in charge of my life.


I don't have to be a certain way because of what has happened in the past.
Every day is a new day.
It's silly to think I can't help being the way I am.
Of course I can.
I can change.

pretty nice poems don't you think? got it from chicken soup. hehe.. hmm, today was a pretty fun day. mr koh's rapping rocks. =) and barney's grooming also not bad. naraen and chinghow were looking nice [and sulky]. lolx. anw, din know that there are sooo many things we need to know abt grooming.. the eyeshadow part can make people bankrupt le! x_X

yep then after dat got library meeting at 1 pm, or so they say. it's actually shelfing of books la. *sheesh* but well, if we, dedicated librarians, din do it, then who will? -.- stayed until around 3.30 pm to finish it.. ugh.. actually still hafn't finish.. there'll people coming on monday to do again. not me obviously.. x_X

still thinking whether i should quit library next year.. hmm.. quite a waste of time la.. but next year should be quite slack.. no renovation, no night duty.. hehe.. well, still got a few months to think abt it.

on a sadder note, many people are quitting angklung next year.. *sobss* councillors and people who are holding exco positions in other ccas.. sigh.. feel really sad even before it happens.. but well, life goes on i guess.. will still see them around in school.. =)